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About Amanda

I am Amanda Graham, and Mindful Coherence is the work of my life taking shape

Family and adolescent psychotherapist. Retreat host. Writer. Researcher. Mother. Grandmother. Traveller. Always a student.

I have spent more than 30 years working with adolescents, parents, families and individuals.

I have lived and worked around the world, raised a family and worked with individuals across many different cultures. I have spent much of my professional life listening to what happens when people feel disconnected from themselves, their children, their partners, or the life they thought they were building.

Mindful Coherence grew from listening to my clients.

It brings together my training in mental health psychology and cognitive behavioural counselling with years of therapeutic practice, yoga, retreat work, research and the ancient sciences and cultural traditions that have shaped my own life.

I believe that what we uncover from the past can be looked at through the eyes of compassion and recovered into a more whole way of living.

A Journey Across Decades and Cultures

Training & Practice

Trained in mental health psychology and cognitive behavioural counselling, building a practice around individuals, parents, adolescents and families.

Working Across Cultures

Lived and worked around the world, supporting individuals and families across many different cultures.

Family Life

Married to Fraser for more than 35 years, raising two children, Josh and Sophie, alongside a growing therapeutic practice.

Mindful Coherence & Retreats

Developed Mindful Coherence and began hosting therapeutic retreats at Chez Vallée in South West France.

Grandmother & Continuing the Work

Now a grandmother, bringing more than three decades of experience into ongoing practice, writing and retreat work.

What Shapes My Work

My work is inquisitive and warm with a professional and compassionate approach.

It is informed by research, but it is not theory heavy.

It is holistic in its approach, but it is still grounded in science.

I am interested in the whole person and the whole family system. The behaviour, the history, the environment, the body, the nervous system, the culture, the silence, the shame and the hopes that often dwell underneath the surface of daily life.

I have worked with people across cultures and countries, and that has taught me that families may look very different from the outside, but the longing for connection, safety and belonging is deeply human.

Why I Work With Parents and Adolescents

Adolescence can be one of the most misunderstood stages of family life.

Parents can feel as if their child has suddenly disappeared behind mood, attitude, silence, risk, screens or anger. Adolescents can feel equally misunderstood, often without having the language or maturity to explain what is happening inside them.

This is where families can begin to lose each other.

My work is to help parents slow the pattern down, understand what may be happening beneath the behaviour, and respond from a place of greater awareness rather than fear.

30 Years of Experience

30+ YearsTherapeutic experience
500+ ClientsSupported over three decades
50+ EventsRetreats and workshops hosted
5 Bedside BooksUsually on the go, at any one time

What I Hold Onto

Compassion Over Judgement

What we uncover from the past can be looked at through the eyes of compassion and recovered into a more whole way of living.

Whole-Person, Whole-Family

I am interested in the whole person and the whole family system, not just the behaviour on the surface.

Presence, Not Pressure

The intention is never pressure. The intention is presence, learning, connection and gentle therapeutic support.

Honesty Without Blame

This is not about blame. It is about creating enough understanding for something different to become possible.

A More Personal Note

I have been married to Fraser for more than 35 years and we have two wonderful children, Josh and Sophie. I am also a grandmother, which has given me another view of family life, love, continuity and the way each generation shapes the next.

I have a faith that guides me daily towards deeper coherence.

I have also accepted that I am not a runner, but I am very much a spinner and a dancer.

My life is full and blessed, and I wish that for others too.

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